This had not been about your baby, this is about You. How you will "survive" the colic year or so. I am sure you will be exhausted, frustrated and sad to say quite a few parents feel guilty with regard to colicky baby. So just how do you deal with all which, all the stress.
First of all there is no need to feel guilty; your baby`s colic had not been your fault. I will say it again that isn't your fault. I know that colic along with your baby`s crying have hard to handle for your spouse. If your baby cries all round the day, I know you love your baby but that's frustrating. Colic can also make you feel depressed, stressed and along with low self-esteem. There for you may want to to take Care of yourself during this time period, so you have the strength to accommodate your colicky baby.
So if you find yourself tired and frustrated, you'll need a break. You need someone to watch your baby yourself. Take turns with your honey, ask family and good friends for Help. If you feel like you're only one that can comfort the young child and can not receive any rest when you hear your baby. You need to leave your house, go to your parent`s house or to a friend`s house and rest. Rent a hotel room. Go see a picture. Do not feel blameworthy, I guarantee that you will feel much better and more patient after a prospect. If it is 60 minutes or 1 night, that can be you, but you if better getting that escape.
See if there is certainly an Colic Support Group where you live. If not there are organizations online. Just to vent these days other parents quite similar situation can really Help.
So remember take Care of yourself - that isn't your fault, take a discount and find a allows you to group.
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